Nope; not me. I fought the good fight, but there's nothing really good going on here. My wife and I are in the middle of a 3-month "stay" in my divorce action against her, and after a good start at things we're right back in sexless/affectionless mode again, she's made no attempt to reach out to my family (whom she alienated, understandably, with her infidelity), and I still don't trust her. She did NONE of the three "dealbreaker" things I said I needed to see when she begged me to come back to her 10 weeks ago.

I'm just trying to get thru the holidays, and then we go before the family court judge in early January. My mind is pretty much made up.

Wish I had more encouraging news for you, guy. I'd be happy to write you a note, tho. \:\/

Chocolateeyes