Just went back and read the last few posts on your old thread. I actually copied your "rant" into my bb word file (posts I want to reflect on, that touch me etc).
Oh my God, Sage...I could have written that!
So of course, I copied your post about what you CAN and CANNOT control too, because woman, you are wise!
Um, does your title have anything to do with dinner last night? Or maybe a reference to your resistance to the "good stuff" your H has been giving you of late???