I just read your thread over there and am glad you moved. I think there will be some good support for you. It's pretty key that you realize S is mourning and also that she can recover her feelings for you. Just keep taking good care of you b/c IMO, your journey thru this process has now just finally begun. So put on your workboots and get ready to start digging in!
As far as the rockies go... still a great experience for all of us. So good to have a successful team to cheer on!!