You'll get there hun. I know you will. We all will!
For some reason, this discussion today made me think of H's grandmother...his grandfather left her for OW 30 years ago, and she's never let it go. Never really picked up and moved on with her life--she still gets upset and frets over those events. They were devastating of course, there's no doubt. But to still be in pain 30 years later is the real tragedy, I believe.
Learning to look forward to the future, find and focus on the joy in our lives today, challenge the flashbacks that pull our attention into the pain of the past...these are the things that will distance us from that very pain and launch us forward to the possibility of a much better tomorrow.
