Grrr...I just wrote this fabulous post and baby hit a button and it's gone! Let's see if I can remember it... \:\)

I'm so glad to see you back Girl, and thrilled that your Retro weekend was such a success!

I'm sure that men experience this too, but I think we as women naturally tend to compare ourselves to others and it can be particularly devastating in our sitches.

When I confronted H about his A (in a hotel room with OW), I was three months post-partum, and while I don't believe I was freakishly unattractive, neither was I in my prime. It felt like a knife in my gut to see that OW was very petite and athletic in build. Not beautiful, but cute and fit. This was a huge source of pain for me. Blech.


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y