CVA - Not sure I have figured anything out?

[Not Much Left]

I think I am painting her as sounding very short or rude w/ me which she is not. Not that it particularly matters now.

She is super polite and yes I think head in the sand. But, given I think she has the kid's well being in mind, I would say I think I am going to just invite her to sit and talk about the papers, point by point before we go blowing a bunch of money on legal bills and see how she responds.

She may say she wants it all to go thru her lawyer which would suck. THis can be done amicably and since she file a "no fault divorce" the only things really to work out are finances and visitation or custody. I say ONLY lightly there.

Called her this am to tell her I wanted to pick up the kids later from school, "oh, ok" super polite and happy. I was positive in tone. This is SO weird. Like, oh well, its over, moving on....see ya later bud!

C