My H is dating. Confirmed dating. Bought two new fireplace inserts for 2 of our 3 fireplaces. One of which is in the master. I very romantic one at that. All my pics and person items completely removed and packed in the basement.

Friends have seen him having dinner with a couple of different gals. So I am taking that fellow up on his date invite. Can't wallow and wait for him to take action and work with me to save the M.

Wish me luck. Luck the rest of us on here we are all venturing into the abyss. Haven't had to "date" in 9 years. Don't have a clue as to what its like in that "pond' so I figure someone I have known for many years may be a safe starting point. I already know he isn't an axe murderer or something.

Thoughts anyone? Am I making a huge mistake?


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.