I don't know mark to come up with all the stuff she mentioned shows she IS spending quite a bit of time thinking about this. It could be maybe to ease the guilt she feels. Like it woldn't be as bad if you were doing it to. But there is that small possibility it's because she cares. Can't stand the thought of you with someone else. Does she seem angered by it?
I agree that it's on her mind. I do know that the guilt of adultery has caught up to her. Before I reformed my ways, snooping revealed that she wanted to change the dynamic of their long-distance relationship. I have no idea now if she is still having sex with him. But I would be shocked if she were not still talking to/texting/emailing her "soulmate."
So she is wandering in limbo. I have no doubt that she is beginning to see that the "perfect life" that she dreamed of with her "perfect man" is never going to happen. Never. So she can either stick with me and rebuild, or go on her own. And now she strongly suspects that I am cheating on her. And although I have never cheated on her, she has absolutely no idea how far I have detached.
I can't say she's angry about it. It's like she "busted" me or something. I called her out: "Just come out and say it!!" Her reply: "I already did..... you make me laugh." (This brought to my mind the title of my next thread, btw). And no, she doesn't care about me at all.
