Cat, I second that! Piglet said it so well. It is so much negative energy. As I said to H yesterday, I HATE who I am when I'm looking at cell phones and being suspicious. I don't want to be that way. It is sometimes hard to resist the temptation to snoop.
Aud, I was on the infidelity borads for a while, too. My name was aidandylan. Then I changed it becuase if my H found it, he would pick my name out in an instant.
Anyway, it is hard to let them figure it out for themselves. And you're right that we've all come such a long way since this started. To revert back to OUR old ways does nobody any good -- especially ourselves. Looking back, I really don't like who I was. YUK... so, glad I went through this trauma so that I could come out of it better.
Hang in there, Aud.
PS.. how old are your kids?
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
