You are so right Cat, Marriage does have to be tened too...if it didn't we wouldn't be here.
I guess I struggle with the commit thing, my H has hurt me beond belief, and yet here I stand still right next to him, committed to him, and us. Yet he is the one with the problem! I just makes you scratch your head and say whats wrong with this picture!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!