Hi Luv, I don't know what to tell you, other than I am sorry you are so down, and I know in piecing (if you read some threads), its very hard. These feelings of hurt and mistrust won't disappear right away. If the boundaries you set for him (no online gaming, transparency) aren't being met, you have every right to call him on it. HE came to YOU, wanting to work it out. Now is the time to call him out. If you are afraid of pushing him away (I can totally understand), then you have to realize that if he leaves again, you couldn't have done anything different. Besides you don't want him back without hashing this out anyway. I know I wouldn't want to relive anything from this past summer, EVER.
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I haven't said anything to him but I just feel one big pile of nerves and hurt. I feel like he's not really trying to put a whole lot of effort into us. He obviously doesn't feel like he was doing was that big of a deal because he's not even trying to make up for it. I don't know. Just down.
Did he agree to any type of counseling? I think you guys might need some help in this area, to keep communication up.
