Wow.. that's exactly what's happened here.

She was ~20 and I was 26/27. Started hanging with this new crowd and boom.

The fire was started, just that this group provided the explosives.

Interesting... W asked me early on if I'd remarry. I told her I probably wouldn't. Of course she took credit (Oh.. did I ruin it for you) selfish.. no.. just not sure I want to do it again.

I told her I know she would remarry.. she loves the idea... the fairy tale. When she figures out she has to help make that fairy tale.. she may get it.

Who knows.