jar, I know. I wonder what H tells people about me. He told OW I was cold, distant and put work ahead of him. Lovely. She was actually defending H to her H, saying "He had nowhere to go, she shut him out." Pathetic.
I once told H that he should be talking to his family about us (not the A, just to have someone to talk to) and he said he would feel bad if they got a negative impression about me. I told him to let ME worry about that and if he told the truth (the demise was both our faults), they won't think negatively.
Lovely that W is hanging out with other 'teammates'. My brother got married very young (20!) and his W cheated on him. She started hanging out with single teachers at her school and it happened. He divorced her by the way, put a 10 yr boycott on marriage (LOL), got married at 30 and is beyond happy with 2 kiddos. Still, very painful for him back then. NOT saying this will happen to you, but we aren't alone.
