Yeah... for me, W would ALWAYS start the inquisition. "Where you going.. who you going with.. what time will you be home"
Then of course she would call me. She's always been very insecure. I've never given her a reason to not trust me, but she's had issues in past R's. Hmm.. now she's doing it.
Anyway.. I would always ask (which I've learned not to do anymore.. thanks Cunningham) and the first reaction would be "I want to spend time with you"
Well.. I've learned what that means now, but even still.. we would spend every day/night together for 2 weeks and all of the sudden when I want to go out it's "We never spend time together"
Now.. I understand I should've been taking her out.. trust me, will never make that mistake again.. but still that's where my guilt came from. She would guilt me everytime.
Update... dropped D's off this morning and we had a pleasant enough exchange. I had to give her my latest pay stub so her and her L can job me tomorrow. They had asked for the tax returns (which he had first) and I told her I didn't have them. He should've made copies (hello office 101). Anyway.. I will be firing my L after our hearing tomorrow. W's L had a number for child support which we agreed upon.. then they came back and said the numbers were wrong it's now $100 more. These guys are quacks. Anyway.. my L has dragged her feet.. I don't talk to her just her paralegal and she's horrible at returning my calls.
After court tomorrow, I'll be using the Don's phrase "You're Fired"
Supposedly my counselor has a real witch of an L that I will probably consult. My W's L has been very proactive. I'm sure part of that is because of the fee's, but mine takes 2-3 days to call me back!!
