These feelings just won't go away..

[RedHeadWife]

As hard as it is, you need to just focus on making a good life for you and your children. I'm 'assuming' you've read Divorce Remedy? If not, get it today.

If you follow the DB guidelines, you will always end up in a better place and that is whether it's w/ your W or not. You will work on YOU and making yourself a happier & better person all around and obviously the hope is that she will see this and decide to work on your M. However, if she does not, you will be better for you and be ready for whatever happens.

I know that doesn't necessarily help make you feel any better, but encouragement to LOVE YOURSELF is what it's all about.