Still trying - Not very well

[limbo]

Thanks Edie!

Regardless of what is happening to us, retro is such a positive, and I would still recommend it to anyone.
Right now for us it has allowed us to talk better, we are able to approach subjects the previously would have been skirted like the plague!
When we dialogue, we generally talk alittle more about different things afterwards, and generally it is still all positive, no one gets there back up, and we talk like grown ups!! And for us this had always been a huge issue!

I do hope that C will help husband because I am sure we can get back to being a couple totally again, if he just would commit and not have issue's with it!
Boy doesn't that sound so stupid! We have been married 17 yrs and together over 20 but now I have to worry about him committing! How backwards is that!!
On some levels we are working, but then I find it hard to truly believe we are, so I am just going to take it slow, and just try and be prepared for any possibilty right now.