by the way. personally i think in his head he is thinking the following:

why is she shutting me out? I just want to be mates.

I'm annoyed and angry that she doesn't want to talk to me.

I feel out of control. upset and sad that my relationship is over and i know some of it is my fault. but i have no idea how to fix it.

I don't think there's a lot more to it than that he's a guy. but hey i'm a girl so who knows how wrong i actually am.

roe