Hey P42,

I had the reconciliation thoughts for a long time, and still wonder what I'd do if she showed up at my door wanting to get back together...after all the soul-searching and therapy I can honestly say that I would smile at her, give her a hug, then ask her to leave and return no more.

I'm not the same person she married. I'm ten times stronger, ten times smarter, sober, and confident now. My ex threw me away like a stale doughnut when she left...I'm a fresh Almond Creme Torte now, buddy and I'm sittin' pretty in the bakery window, and all the ladies are hungry for cake.

So, work on yourself, put those kids first, and keep that karma bin full. I open doors for people, let drivers cut in front of me, and smile at grumpy old men. I too read "The Secret" and it does work! The Law of Attraction is so powerful...

Every morning I wake up and say "Thank You" to the Universe for putting me here. Wouldn't change a thing...okay, except for having to pay taxes...keep up the good work P42, I can tell you're getting stronger by your words and deeds!


Me - 46 She - 36 Daughter - 10
Married 10 yrs
1st Bomb Date 12/17/06
(Merry Christmas!)
D Bomb in January
(Happy New Year!)
Every other week custody of D10
She has OM who helped her walk away
Divorced 07/05/07