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Well, it appears that H has also cancelled the direct deposit. Technically, his pay day is the fifth. However, I have never seen it come on the fifth. It usually comes between the 1st and 4th. It still isn't there. Thanks again, H.

He had to have done this 2-3 weeks ago for it to take effect for this check. Technically, I guess it could still come in today, but it isn't very likely.

Don't worry. I'm not going to call him or track him down. The lawyer will take care of it. In the meantime, I will manage.

F-in A-hole.


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(((HUGS))) neph. what an ass. I'm so sorry, honey. I am. good idea to leave it to the lawyers.


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Yes, the law is on your side. It may be slow, but it is effective.

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Went to see my Family Lawyer. At this time, no charges have been filed. It is an open investigation. They have a year to file charges. I just have to stay away.


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Neph,

That's good. Please do me a favor....when this thread locks, please choose a new title for the next one. Everytime I see "Now I've done it again" I think, "Oh, No! Not again!"

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Good idea, Sara. Maybe this title is setting me up for sabotage like a self fullfilling prophecy.

I'll have to think of a new one. I'll probably start the next one in the D forum.

I'm feeling better, stronger. I've made a decision and I am moving forward.

Money is going to be tight this month, but I think I can make it work without falling back on credit cards.

I have lots of "homework" from the lawyer that I have to get started on. I can do this. I will be ok.


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Hey Nep,

thinking about ya. Please stay away from them. Like you said let the L do your talking.

I am up early (work at 4:00) so youhavemy E-mail id ya need to vent.

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