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Mark... I believe that's part of it. Someone else on here was talking about how the first time their WAW found out he was dating they talked like school girls about it. After some time, he found the next date was not so well received.

I think it all depends on the situation/timing. I'd revel in the fact that at least she's thinking someone else could be interested in you.

At least take solace in the fact that after this long of her torturing you.. you at least have a few moments of revenge.

How small it may be.

Keep up the fight brother!!

BTW.. how'd your game go? D's were being crazy, so I didn't get a chance to DVR the game.



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I hope you know I was kidding about the game being on ESPN3 (um.. there is no ESPN3)... We played well and lost 16-6.

Let me make this clear: I will not lift a finger to correct the record. I am doing nothing wrong. And the evidence she has is flimsy and circumstantial. The more effort I put into a "strenuous denial," the more it will appear that I have something to hide.

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Mark, I agree, no denying. I told H one time and one time only that I am not cheating on him. Now when he says he doesn't trust me I say "I am sorry to hear that" and change the subject. Sorry she invaded your night with her spew.

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DOH!! I didn't even think about it.. there are so many ESPN channels (ESPNU etc) it didn't even occur to me.

I wouldn't change the record either.. let her think what she wants.



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I like that response, lwb ... mind if I use it? ;\)


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Maybe she is hoping she can use it against you with the kids if you were involved with somone else. These WAS are a devious bunch and tar others with their own poor morals.

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I don't know mark to come up with all the stuff she mentioned shows she IS spending quite a bit of time thinking about this. It could be maybe to ease the guilt she feels. Like it woldn't be as bad if you were doing it to. But there is that small possibility it's because she cares. Can't stand the thought of you with someone else. Does she seem angered by it?

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Of course Mark. You are my role model so it would be an honor to actually help you for once.

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Role model? Wow... thanks lwb.

But be careful on what you copy from me. For instance, I pee standing up...

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Well I hope you do... if you didn't I would wonder:)

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