Well, you can still love her AND let her go. She might be realizing this as well. I totally know what you mean though, because sometimes I think H thinks "Sucker...all this, and she STILL hasn't kicked me out".
I am going to find where they take our spouses when they abduct them and kindly ask for them back. 'I slept with someone else because you made me do it'....sorry, I did not tie you up, put a gun to your head or force you. You made that choice.
I am going to find where they take our spouses when they abduct them and kindly ask for them back.
Good stuff. I'd pay for the old one back. Hell I'd rather saddle up and fight for the old one back. (against who I'm not sure, but...I'm spoiling for it.)
That's great that they can take our faults and equate them to us forcing them into a self destructive act.
As soon as I find my STBXW's spaceship I'm gonna stuff her in it and hit the launch button, I don't care what color it is. Send the new one BACK!
BUH BYE!
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
Typical Gov't Suits, asleep at the wheel while the rest of us are over-run by evil alien overlords.
I'm from the government and I'm here to help.....
Until death do us part.....
Uuuhhhh.... Whatever
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
W called on her way home from school (see... now she's acting "normal")
I can tell she's depressed.. she asked me my honest opinion if she's A:Gaining weight and B:Losing muscle tone.
What the F? I know she hasn't gained weight, but how the H would I know about muscle tone? I should've told her to come over and model and I'd tell her.
We chat about school and how she's doing.. then we start chatting about work. I admit.. I'm a fixer, so it's hard not to offer advice.
Well.. here is something that's been a sore spot for us. She works at the daycare that our kids attend. Now.. for the 2 of them, it would be well over 1500 a month for daycare. They worked out a deal with my W where she gets lower pay (not much) and we pay a discounted rate. I'm not kidding.. she makes ~6.50 an hour and we only pay 350 a month for the daycare.
Now.. if you do the math, we are making out like bandits. So.. she's always complained that she should make more money. What she never takes into account is the discounted rate. They got her on the last raise.. they bumped her up, but they also bumped up the tuition. She just saw the pay raise.. of course that's because I paid the tuition and her paycheck went into her account. Anyway.. she's complaining about the money again. I hope she doesn't stir a wave there, because we will have to find alternative ways for daycare.
We get back on the subject of school... she's complaining how her history professor hates her.. she says because of "what's going on" she's missed some classes. Oh yeah.. you wanted to bone your BF and it's my fault you missed class? Sounds like the Professor knows the score!!
Her music teacher is bending over for her.. no wonder she likes her!! I swear she is the biggest user sometimes.
Lastly... she's boo hooing about being tired. Running around all the time.. not having time to study. WOW.. ALIEN ALERT ALIEN ALERT.
We talked for a good 25 minutes, then I'm sure OM beeped in. She was gone for a few minutes.. clicked back over and we talked for another 5/10. Then she said she had to go.. she was pulling up. Not sure where.. I wonder if she's still telling everyone how I'm being an ass?
I can't believe she has the nerve to smack talk you to people??!!! UGH Watch out, those aliens can strike at any time!!
Whenever I used to ask H how he was, I would get a sarcastic "Oh fabulous", like HIS life is so horrible.........Yeah, two women all summer long, you freaking loved it. Sorry for the raging hijack.
