I'm sorry for the confusion. I meant to imply that of couples who get divorced from each other 6-20% get re-married to each other (depending on different sources).

The 60% number is most likely associated with the divorce rate for second marriages. The rate of divorce is even higher for marriages that resulted from an affair.

Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM