I feel so discouraged.. how can you spend 7 years of your life day in and day out with someone and then just cut them out overnight?
Not like I'm trying to defend the WAW, but the answer that I've gotten from my W and from various resources is that this hasn't happened overnight. The WAW has usually been unsatisfied for years unbeknownst to the LBS who is going along happily as ever. Problem is that they haven't been truthful or haven't dealt with the feelings for all that time.
