I have no idea how those things go, wonder if it's standard procedure in a D there?
All you lawyers out there, is this a good idea? Ask your W whether she's aware the papers stipulate this and that that you're uncomfortable with. If she's unaware and agrees with you about changes, her L can make them to the papers.
CVA, you guys obviously haven't been able to talk to each other about this kind of thing in the past; maybe with the protection of a D in progress W can relax? But I'm just thinking that approach would be so much more friendly and a hell of a lot cheaper than getting your own L to file a motion, etc etc.