Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

Hi Steve n Lizzy

Yeah, I know Steve, that's how I got to be so 'talkative' lol because he kept clamming and I could never wait long enough to have him tell me why. Thanks for the gentle reminder. I DO keep trying to figure out what he is thinking, but I am getting better about waiting for it...now I just come here and post it, so that I don't have to yak at him or worry about it. I give it the old 48 hour rule. That does seem to help make it subside.

Thanks, Lizzy, you're right I will find it out eventually. Well good for you that someone else noticed!! Congrats! I went to a happy hour Friday night and first I got hit on at the light rail station, a complete stranger came up and told me I was very beautiful and started inquiring as to my nationality, perhaps I was brazilian? I told him thank you for saying that I really appreciate it. (He had no idea HOW MUCH i needed THAT!!) and then my train came so I left him sitting there, lol.

Then at the happy hour I had two coworkers (male) give me compliments...one said I needed to stop being so sexy and the other said I looked different, but a good different

Then when I got home my husband was asking about my time out and I proceeded to tell him how I got hit on and the nice compliments I got and then switched the convo to talk about other friends that he knows who were there. When I told him one of them said I needed to stop being so sexy, my H looked at me and said "No you don't, you never stop doing that". That was a NICE small positve from him. So maybe if he asks about your weight loss again, you can say 'Yeah and a coworker told me how good I looked today, so that made me feel good' and smile and walk away...