I thinkk you are heading in the right direction!

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he said he didn't care how I felt.
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yea,he's bound to say all sorts of things, remember, DON"T believe anything you hear!

Just talked to him as you talk to your neighbor or an acquantaince, just be polite, end with a "have a good night", stuff like that.

KEEP your 180's, and do NOT ask him back, it is too early, he needs to find out what it feels to be on the other side of the fence, that the grass isnt' greener.

When does he see the kids? he should have them somedays, you can't have all the fun ;\) he he. Plan a weekend day out, GAL.

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.