I agree with Steve. Just keep doing what you are doing. Hopefully your H is seeing that you are more enjoyable to be around and he wants to see if that lasts. You will drive yourself crazy trying to figure out his motive. You will find out sooner or later, so why rush to conclusions.

I'm sure you did look great in those jeans, and isn't it even better that he noticed. I had someone I used to work with ask me today about losing weight and telling me how good I looked. Wish me H would have heard that because he used to be jealous of this guy. I think it would do my H some good to feel jealous again.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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