Hi bruce, My H and I were seperated for 6 months...he had an A...totally followed MLC stuff except for the timeline. We have been back together for 5 months and things are going very well. We seek counseling together and have started over both knowing that our M will never be the same. My H initiated the whole R thing with me...I was shocked and wasn't sure how to proceed...so I let him to the talking, the asking to do things together and with the kids etc... The one thing I have understood from him is that he began to miss me about 2 months before he said anything and he said he missed me more when he saw me GALing...he told me it drove him crazy and he always wondered about me...funny thing is when I started to GAL (not just faking it!!) I did not wonder about his every move. Let the lack of invitation go...she may be afraid to move forward to quickly. Act as if it doesn't bother you...let her come to you...continuing to GAL for you is the best medicine!!
