I always tried to correct him and use to be very hard to respect our differences. We saparated a month ago and he doesn't want to come back. We only have been married for 3 years! Now that I think about it, I WASN'T THAT BAD! We don't have any children but I really though he love me. We had fun together it is just a constant miscommunication between us, we both come from different cultures, I am more traditional and he is not at all. My parents have been happily married for 30 years, his divorced a year ago and the are both re-married. Now I don't know if he will come back. Divorce just doesn't seem the right thing to do. He lives with his best friend now and he sais he is a lot happier.