CVA - Not sure I have figured anything out?

[waw1978]

Hey (((CVA)))

Just checking in on your sitch. I missed a lot over the weekend. Still no home PC. Vanessa Marcil could't even raise your spirits?

I can't say anything more than whats already been said by the rest of our good pals on here.

My only advice would to be to try and look out for yourself legally, financially and emotionally. Your W may have been the one to file but she does not get to dictate how this will go.

I would certainly speak to an atty to protect yourself and your parental rights. I hate to say it but it seems like people's spots change to stripes when it comes to D.

I don't know the law but I do know from working in financial services that I see a lot accounts being frozen during D proceedings to protect assets for both parties...usually see only joint withdrawals etc until they both sign off on lifting it. Sorry I always think of things from the banking angle due to my profession. I would hate to see you get taken to the proverbial cleaners so she can continue on her carefree, suntanning, shopping and lunching days while you are slaving away to continue to support this woman in the manor to which she has become accustome.

Sorry don't mean to be negative but you seem to work your Arse off while she lives a carefree lifestyle. I wish she could see just how good she has/had it with you in her life.

I would like to see her manage with no full time housekeeper, landscaper and pool boy. Oh and no CVA to keep up with everything else. Probably not the rosey future she is imagining.

Either way, you have movement. You are not in limbo anymore. You know where she stands. You can really start to move forward with your life. Keep GAL, really practive the Ducks Back and keep up the PMA. Easier said than done. But most of all take good care of yourself. Focus on your health and your children.