wow, I see lots of my H in your H (the no sex part, does sound like my H is also afraid to commit, to give of himself to me).
It is sad to hear them talk like that but at the same time it is good that the truth is out there, for all to see. He seems as lost as my H, T is not helping much now for now. I do hope that your H goes to C, remind him gently, perhaps get a name for him.
I'm glad you are filling your mind with good reads, you will need to detach even more and let him find his way back. Keeping you in my prayers)))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
