Sounds great and just keep it up. My W has not moved out, but it is amazing how the logical or caring stuff doesn't work and they truly are in a different world where even a conversation such as yours is hard to take. My wife will not talk about anything that happened and I figure she is stewing on the pain and the quilt, the lies the broken trust and all that.
Thanks for your kind words, Henrik.
Last night was the first time in our separation that she would acknowledge (with some affirmation) the idea that there was even an affair. There's still a tremendous amount of denial at work, but I see it as a small, positive inroad.
We'll see what happens from here. :-)
-- Mike
Mike is Hurtin': Me: 32 W: 32 No kids M: 8 years, T: 10 years Bomb: ILYBINILWY: 9/11/07 Seperated: 10/13/07
W still states OM is just a friend, and the kiss on 06/2007 was a one-time thing.
