Your right its not normal behavior, but neither is having an A.
Us regular "joes" couldn't do that, so its not you, its her.

this is her being self -centered. Unfortunately we can't control them, until they come back to there senses.. remember they are aliens at this point, and most everything she will be or has done is not the norm.

I hate to say this but it won't be the last time she dissapoints you. what matters is where you are at with all of it. Right now expect nothing from her and you won't be dissapointed. (i know its one thing to say it and another to mean it) You will get good suprises now and then, and sometimes thats all we have to hold on to.

tal

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.