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[cat03]

I don't think you are being unreasonable, and I dont' see why you have to do all the driving, he should be responsible for picking up kids a certain day after an activity.
Hope you can work something out, just remember not to seem defensive or put off, I know you are not happy with the sitch, but the calmer you are the easier things will go.
When my H was out of the house he never considered me, always happy to be out and about, sadly, this is "normal" when a man leaves the home. At least he is caring for the kids. Don't bend over backwards to accomodate him though, you'll end up expecting him to do so and will be resentful when he doesn't.