Dom, being separated does suck. But it sometimes gives the person that was "kicked out" the extra kick to get their acts together so to speak sometimes. It would really make him understand what it takes to get back to what he really wants hopefully.
Of course I do agree that it should be used only if he's not willing to listen when the boundaries are drawn....
If he isn't willing to meet the requirements one way or another then he probably doesn't want the R no matter what you do....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
