I know how hard it is to lay your heart out again and trust, it is very scary but also a great act of courage.

I pray that this time your H stays true to the M and that the new C does help him. There was this chapter on 'not just friends" that mentioned mirror images. How, when we are hurt, when our Ss look into our eyes all they see is the failure they brought upon themselves, the hurt they have caused, our dissapointment. So then, the negativity is kept alive and well.
In time, work yourself so that when your H looks into your eyes you project trust, you project hope, love.

Stay strong, my prayers your way))))))))


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.