Sounds great and just keep it up. My W has not moved out, but it is amazing how the logical or caring stuff doesn't work and they truly are in a different world where even a conversation such as yours is hard to take. My wife will not talk about anything that happened and I figure she is stewing on the pain and the quilt, the lies the broken trust and all that.
The affair does end, and the excitement around it.
Ironically we are together much thanks to our 2 dogs,
