Maybe "kicking him out" would get him out of his comfort zone and make him realize some stuff. Sometimes it's necessary for people to see things a bit clearer. It forces them to make certain choices they are trying to avoid.... In the end you do have to make yourself happy and protect yourself from his confusion.
BTW, can I borrow you to shake up my W a bit? :P j/k I don't think she'll ever really appreciate what I do for her until she feels that I won't always be there for her....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.