Hugs to you Penny. I'm so glad you have your wonderful sons! Be sure to look at the helpful suggestions that Hurt gave me on page 20 of the thread. It's so wonderfult to have such wealth of of friends and knowledge on here.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I am lucky that my SIL are good to me even thought they are married to my H brothers...His brothers are supportive too. My sons are so good to me. They call everyday and check on me or text me which at times I think is trying for them when I text back. Thanks tired and YOYO being able to vent to you guys helps alot as you know.
I have started looking for a place and that is a hard decision to make too. Aren't we lucky to have been put in this situation but we all need to be strong and MOve ahead.
Hi Mat, How are you doing? IS your daughter any better? Well My H called yesterday and was kinda cool. I finally figured it out after my sil called him the other night he called her talked to her for 83 minutes. I haven't heard what the conversation is but I think he wants now to get all the bookkeeping done on our business and we will be done. He is already living with her. What is funny is the control she has on him. He is one that hates for anyone to tell him to do or plan anything for him what a change...Oh WEll!!
I just have to keep my head up because you can't change their mind. So its live for ourselves... Hope you have a good day
He is already living with her. What is funny is the control she has on him. He is one that hates for anyone to tell him to do or plan anything for him what a change...Oh WEll!!
Pennyb,
do you think it may be because he feels he has no control over your sitch and it is nice to sit back and let somebody else drive??
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
You are locked up again.. I just wanted to give you some support. That old story that He was coming back, It was only going to be at his convenience. I am figuring out that my h has a personality that he shows me and one to everybody else. We have the tendency to believe them..I think they tell us enough to get us to believe them but not the real truth. I don't think he was completely coming back to you. I think he was just testing the waters. Be Strong and if he doesn't want to give you 1/2 the business he looses control. Tell him that he can just buy you out if he doesn't want you involved. He is the one that has put himself in these shoes. Same as my H. He has tried one deal and as I thought about it I think NO We will divide everything in half. My H was saying you have to take one or the other, I said NO.
This si sthe PITS. I never thought they would be in this situation ,I hate it.
It seems that way. They like to keep it a roller coaster. But I am kinda tired of the ride. My H came over yesterday to pick up his trailer and called and wanted to go for coffee. He was real weird acting. Finally I said I didn't have anything to do with SIL calling you and I just thought it was wrong how you handled it. He said I thought they were still friends and said haven't been for a long time no matter what OW says.
Then he was Mr Friendly....He so much wants out so I am doing the 180 I should have done a long time ago and trying very hard to move on with my life. I am dog sitting my sons roommates little little dog that he had bought for a girlfriend and then they broke up...My H said why would you want a little dog and he will go all over the house. I said he was house trained and was thinking you can't tell me if I want one or not. You don't live here. I giggled to myself...He doesn't want to be married but he thinks I still need to do it his way...HAHAHAH!!!!! Where do they get off on that one. I guess we learn to adjust with what we have been dealt and make the best of it. I feel that you and I and so many others have come a long way since we found DB.
Have a great Day.
PS. Husband I think you are probably right. And maybe all along I got a long with him way to much instead of being more controlling. He always said I controlled him and I believe he doesn't realize what control really is. But with her I have heard that she will be come the Queen of control unless she has changed for him....
