jh,

Yes be careful, you don't want to push her too far away. But keeping her guessing is great, ahhh the game of cat and mouse..

yes focus on yourself and the girls, its a healthy thing to do. You need to make yourself feel good for a change!

tal

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.