Wow--I'm glad he was able to get that out. And that you were there for him.
I often think that it would be a huge step forward for H and I if he would get to this point, but he is so skilled at stuffing and compartmentalizing...sometimes I really believe he has felt very little remorse over his actions, mostly because he has displayed so little. But I also realize that I have NO IDEA what really happens inside him, and have hope that someday he will get there. That's all beyond my control though, so for now, it's just taking a step at a time, trying to keep it in the right direction.
It sounds like you got somewhere with drawing your line in the sand. It's a fine line to walk, and realize we'll all fall off from time to time, but what matters is that we pick ourselves up and keep on moving.
