Originally Posted By: tostada
So, yes...I have a smile on my face and am surprised. Very happy on this turn of events.


That is fantastic news! Don't get discouraged if W doesn't seem quiet as enthusiastic as you might expect her to be. My W said that she wanted us to 'take it slow' and some other stuff a while ago, then she changed her mind, but her behavior is fitting with her 'taking it slow' idea.

Your W obviously freaked out when she saw that you were serious about moving on without her - Seems to be pretty common across many of the threads here. I guess it takes the right timing of her questioning what she is doing, and you really being ready to just take the next step.

I'm going to be curious how things progress with you and your W in the near future. Three months is a long time - I'd bet she'll forget that expectation within a couple of weeks when she see things being so much better.