Yep... you've been going down a cheeseless tunnel for a long time.

I'm in sales... I think what you need here is a "call plan" what do you want from this "meeting"? Please think logical.. you are not going to make or break the M with this meeting. What do you want? Do you want her to reconsider?

Think about it from her perspective as well. Like singleagain says.. who do you see when you look at yourself through her eyes?

Me personally... I want my W to see some bad @$$ mofo that don't take any crap from anyone including her. I also want her to go "Damn... he's hot.. what am I doing?"

That's what you want!! DO IT!!!