okay, so we are suppose to have our "talk" this weekend and I am so nervous and still dont know what I am going to say..
Why are you still searching for the "magic words" that are going to make a difference? I know why you are nervous and you know why you are nervous. Deep down you know that whatever you say is not going to give you the end result you desperately hope it will. Deep down you know exactly what she is going to say that you won't want to hear. And yet you ignore this and continue down a path that does no good.
What about your actions? What are you doing to counter what perceptions she has of you? Can you honestly say that you are someone that any woman would be crazy to leave? DO NOT take what I am saying as harsh. I am merely trying to stimulate some thought on your part. I'm not seeing you doing any work on you. Have you a plan?