However....I know that it's possible her feelings arent quite in line yet with what she apparently knows is the right thing in the long run. I appreciate that she's willing to validate them.
My question on the DB'ing....I believe one of my 'weaknesses' in her eyes was I never created the schedule in a sense. Is persuing still taboo at this stage? Can I ask her to lunch, a drink, perhaps schedule a trip for just the two of us in a month? I know I also have to not try to smother her with attention.
What's interesting is I'm not even totally sure what all my changes are. Whatever they are, she likes what she's seeing. I think its helping out around the house and with the kids significantly more, reconnecting with friends, and working out and taking care of myself. I assume it's those and I'll keep doing all of them.
