congrats on where things are possibly headed for you now.
Would you mind posting a condensed recap version of where/when you started on the "bad" part of your marriage, and then how you got to here? (ie: bomb time, major things between then and now, and then how this happened?)
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
