It's so backwards I have a hard time comprehending it sometimes. I did have to chuckle at her parents though. Evidently W made a comment to her mom that she thought I had a girlfriend or was seeing a girl. Her mom was in shock that she would bring it up like I'm the one doing wrong. Her dad simply said "Shall I point you to a mirror young lady?"
Funny people.
I wonder what would happen if I really did start seeing someone?
I've stopped doing research on her (meaning affair books etc) and I've been spending time on me and the girls. I'll get back into it, but it will be casually.
Anyway.. I'm sure one of the affair books would explain it. My guess is I would be attacked for giving up on our marriage.. then she would attempt to strengthen R with OM.. it falls apart and she starts chasing me.
Sounds kinda fun!!
I've tested the waters on this a little, I've made comments about "girlfriends" and her reactions are always sharp. I need to be careful though as the other day she said "I think you're just messing with me".. touchee (did I spell that right?). I can honestly say I'm not lying to her, but a part of me is saying certain things to get her goat. I guess that's called "temperature checking"?
