Just thinking...is there any way to approach the W about things she does/says that hurts me now? It seems when I do that she automatically goes into the we are talking about R again and flips on the anxiety and anger mode. Or am I just suppose to let them slide and keep peace? I just don't want to be a doormat but at the same time I do not want to trigger her to make things worse. Every time that happens we seem to be getting further apart. Last week we are doing well and then this weekend, a conversation that turned bad seems to have set us way back. Even though we agreed we should just let it go, pretend it never happened, and move on, I doubt she will. She has never been good at letting things go....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
