Thanks Limbo! I don't really see this as all that negative. (or do I have my head in the sand?) H hasn't revealed anything new to me - I already knew all of this. I think it's kinda positive that he at least is recognizing he has a problem - I think that's a great step. I just don't know if he is strong enough to battle his demons. If he's a strong man, he will and we'll probably be ok - if he's weak (and all evidence has pointed to this) he will decide to just up and leave. The funny thing is, even leaving requires commitment - and I just don't think he has it in him to commit to anything....even leaving...time will tell.
I'm going to swing by later on and catch up on you. I hope things are going well!
Em
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley