that sounds good Puddle.

hey, and what about being emotionally open about other things about you? I mean, does it have to be about your H and your R? can it be about your goals or fears that has nothing to do with him?

I'm remembering what you said that H didn't like how you were fearful, or always got stressed out about things if they didn't happen the way you thought. it was a while back, and I can't remember exactly what it was. can you talk about that again? I would hate for your vulnerability to come across as the same. But I could be totally off from what I remember. Thanks!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."